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Facebook User Arrested For a Poke 394

nk497 writes "A woman in Tennessee has been arrested for poking someone over Facebook. Sharon Jackson had been banned by courts from 'telephoning, contacting or otherwise communicating' with the apparent poke recipient, but just couldn't hold back from clicking the 'poke' button. She now faces a sentence of up to a year in prison."
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Facebook User Arrested For a Poke

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  • by rev_media ( 973772 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @07:24PM (#29726071) Homepage
    I would say it's closer to leaving them a voicemail. That's not really the issue though. Would you or I wave to someone in a public place after a court issues a no contact order? I sure as hell wouldn't. There's something wrong with that woman.
  • Okay... (Score:5, Informative)

    by FlyingSquidStudios ( 1031284 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @07:38PM (#29726221)
    I admit I don't know what this woman did exactly to get the restraining order, but I've been a victim of harassment. Even though a Facebook poke is a pretty negligible sort of contact, the psychological toll is takes on who she is being barred from communicating with could still be pretty great. I know that just seeing a photo of the person who was doing things to me was enough to make my pulse race and my stomach churn. Poking someone on Facebook after a restraining order tells the victim, "I still have ways to get to you." I'm glad she's being prosecuted.
  • by 0100010001010011 ( 652467 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @07:46PM (#29726305)

    You have to confirm pokes. TWO random accidental mouse clicks is highly improbable.

  • by mysidia ( 191772 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @07:48PM (#29726331)

    Is a poke really communication?

    I'm thinking of people who send random pokes to their contact lists all the time, without any actual communication meaning to them.

    Moreover... poking on Facebook only actually works if the person has added you as their friend.

    If you went to court to get a no-contact order against someone else, why the heck would you add or keep them as your friend on facebook?

    Everything status update, every message you post shows up as a communication to all your friends... so you're actually initiating contact with them!

  • by Zordak ( 123132 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @08:21PM (#29726695) Homepage Journal
    "Un-friending" them wouldn't be a problem because FB doesn't notify people that you have "unfriended" them. And it's irrelevant, because FB lets you "poke" people who aren't your friends.
  • by baka_toroi ( 1194359 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @08:25PM (#29726745) Journal
    You don't need to be friends with someone to poke them.
  • Except that unlike real life, on Facebook you can simply ban other users from having any interaction with you, and its quite simple too.

    There should be no reason the complainant hadn't already done this and avoided this situation altogether.

  • by Orion Blastar ( 457579 ) <orionblastar AT gmail DOT com> on Monday October 12, 2009 @09:56PM (#29727473) Homepage Journal

    Facebook Help says:

    "What do I do if someone is harassing me on the site or through Inbox?
    We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the...
    We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the "Blocking People" box at the bottom of the Privacy page. If this does not resolve the problem, please report the user by clicking the 'Report/Block person' link that appears at the bottom of the user's profile. To report a user for a message you have received, use the report link located next to the message in your inbox."

    Victim who got the TRO should have blocked that woman from his/her Facebook profile. Then there would have been no poke.

  • by greyhueofdoubt ( 1159527 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @10:11PM (#29727611) Homepage Journal

    You can poke strangers as long as their profile is public, I just checked.

    -b

  • by breakfastpirate ( 925130 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @11:18PM (#29728085)
    I'm almost positive they changed it so that you can only poke someone who's profile you can actually view, regardless of whether you are friends with them. Used to be you could poke anyone in search listings, but now if you get the whole "This user only shares certain information with everyone" upon viewing their profile you can't poke them. You can poke strangers as long as they have their privacy settings set to everyone or a network you are in.
  • by sumdumass ( 711423 ) on Monday October 12, 2009 @11:56PM (#29728303) Journal

    Most if not all restraining orders require a level of knowingly to be in violation. In other words, you need to prove your actions where completely innocent of being in violation of the order when happenstance places you in violation of the order. If you hang out somewhere where the protected person usually goes, then chances are, your not going to get away with it. However, if your shopping and happen to run into the person, then your obligated to correct anything that might be in violation. When the circumstances are outside of your control, like maybe you were in an auto accident and rushed to the same emergency room the other person might be at for different reasons, then it waits until you are able to control your own actions.

    What this means is that if the contact is unknowingly, then as soon as it's reasonably known or suspected, you have to take corrective actions to be in compliance with the order. So if two AC accounts or pseudonyms turn out to be in violation of the order and there is nothing to suggest it was intentional, they aren't technically in violation until one or the other figures it out. If it's the protected person who does it first, then the cops will inform the restrained, if it's the restrained who figures it out first, they have to cease any actions that would violate the order as soon as they are aware of it.

    This isn't really something new to E-law as it happens all the time in real life. Imagine how many times you randomly run into an ex somewhere when it isn't expected. Now imagine that Ex is the restrained person of a protective order who didn't do anything to cause the run in. It's actually that common outside some court order will list specific places where the person isn't allowed to go. I've seen them list places of employment, parks close to homes of protected people, schools, and so on when trolling court documents. Here is a site that explains [columbuscityattorney.org] a little more about them in my state. I have no reason to believe they word much differently in other states. That site deals mostly with domestic violence but it does have some input about when you find yourself in the same place as the restrained further down the page.

  • by drsmithy ( 35869 ) <drsmithy@nOSPAm.gmail.com> on Tuesday October 13, 2009 @08:14AM (#29730409)

    Really, I don't even understand how two women can make love, unless they kind of scissor or something.

    Exactly [wikipedia.org]. There's other [wikipedia.org] options [wikipedia.org] too [wikipedia.org].

  • Re:Okay... (Score:3, Informative)

    by Rary ( 566291 ) on Tuesday October 13, 2009 @10:37AM (#29731723)

    You can poke non-friends, but that's irrelevant. The point is this: If Bob has been ordered by the court not to contact Sue, and he contacts Sue, he is at fault. Period. It is not up to Sue to prevent Bob from contacting him (she already did that by getting the fucking restraining order in the first place). Bob is responsible for his own actions.

    This is an issue of personal responsibility. Yes, there are steps Sue can take to avoid Bob. Yes, some of those steps may be smart things to do. But, even if Sue does not take those steps, it is Bob's fault, and only Bob's fault, if Bob decides to violate the restraining order and contact Sue.

    Why is this so difficult for so many people to understand?

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