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The Majority of 18- To 29-Year-Olds In the US Are Now Living With Their Parents (axios.com) 187

An anonymous reader quotes a report from Axios: Nearly 30 million Americans are spending their 20s in the same place they spent their grade school years: at home with their parents. For the first time since the Great Depression, the majority of 18- to 29-year-olds have moved back home. Those living arrangements can come with a great deal of awkwardness and pain, but families across America are making the most of it.

Reasons for moving home vary. The coronavirus recession has hit young people especially hard, and many are living with family because they've lost their jobs or haven't been able to find work after college or grad school. Others wanted some company during lockdowns. "You can't imagine how great it is to hear that I'm in the majority of my generation," says Elsa Anschuetz, a 24-year-old working in public relations out of her childhood bedroom. "It is definitely not where I thought I'd be at this stage in my life, but, at least to me, it is definitely better than living in an apartment alone during this crazy pandemic."

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The Majority of 18- To 29-Year-Olds In the US Are Now Living With Their Parents

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  • This one is not good.

  • by WolfgangVL ( 3494585 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:08PM (#60512880)

    All those old people could really use the help taping those eviction notices on all those rental property front doors.

  • So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

    by Vermonter ( 2683811 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:10PM (#60512884)

    This was exceedingly common for the bulk of human history. Why are we now acting like its some shameful thing? Yeah you don't get quite as much privacy as you would living on your own, but you gain a lot in financial benefit.

    • It's not the end of the world (I lived with my parents until after getting my first corporate job) but it's clearly an indication that housing affordability is going down significantly. Which isn't great but also pretty obvious to anyone who's seen the prices recently.

    • bulk of human history you could find a career in your community, often the same as your parent, in the globalized economy you need to scavenge like an animal over a range of 100s if not 1000s of miles.
    • This was exceedingly common for the bulk of human history.

      However, in the US, until quite recently it has been exceedingly uncommon.

      Why are we now acting like its some shameful thing?

      What do you mean now? It's been considered as a sign of failure for decades if not longer.

      Yeah you don't get quite as much privacy as you would living on your own, but you gain a lot in financial benefit.

      Funny because the reason so many people are living with their parents is specifically because of corporations own "financial benefit" which is to say, they don't pay shit and they would pay even less if it was legal.

      How are you not understanding that this is a sign of a failed economic model? Just look at how wages have stagnated while the cost

      • Re: So what? (Score:4, Insightful)

        by Raisey-raison ( 850922 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:55PM (#60513044)
        The reason people are living at home in their 30s is a shortage of housing. If people earned more money, then rents would be higher (and yes people are underpaid in average relative to productivity). Itâ(TM)s simple supply and demand.

        There is a lack of housing because while are population is growing in large part due to immigration, we refuse to build more homes due to NIMBY anti development and anti green space building as well. If we stopped growing the population, then we could also stop building. Unfortunately environmentalists and the progressive left donâ(TM)t see the contradiction between a growing population and the environment.

        Or we could pursue a policy of ever less housing units per capita. And then people when they earn the least in their lives have to live with their parents. And you are going to be miserable if you are 23, have a full time job, but your parents are assholes. And letâ(TM)s face it, a substantial minority donâ(TM)t know how to treat their adult children with dignity and respect.
        • Typo - I meant 20s, not 30s.
        • Re: So what? (Score:5, Interesting)

          by peragrin ( 659227 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @07:13PM (#60513110)

          In the 1980s my father 55k a year job owned 3 homes by age 40 had 3 kids a boat and two cars.

          My 50k year salary wouldn't let me save enough money for a car and down payment on a house. I couldn't qualify for any mortgages in my area ( suburbs 40 miles from a major city)

          Inflation is wiping out people. Because it is tied a weighting algorithm that is outdated. Low milk and oil prices and tv prices offset skyrocketing housing costs.

          • Re: So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

            by whoever57 ( 658626 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @07:42PM (#60513250) Journal

            Inflation is not the problem. The issue is that all the increases in wealth in recent years have gone to the 1%ers. Increasing wealth disparity is the problem. Inflation would not be a problem if wages had kept up, but they haven't.

            On another note: increasing wealth disparity is negatively correlated with economic growth rates. Not only are wealthy people suing their money to influence politics to their own benefit, they are making the country poorer through their influence.

            • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

              It's even worse than that. A lot of people are convinced to vote against their own best interests. People who are working glass get convinced that they are middle class and should vote for policies that benefit the wealthy because they will somehow tangentially help them too.

              A lot of it is just blame culture. Blame everything on the poors, the welfare queens and scroungers. Hey look your house is worth 3x what you paid for it, that means you are rich now, right? So vote to lower taxes on the rich and don't

        • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

          As an environmentalist I want to see new homes built - to a decent standard with energy saving features that reduce emissions. We have too many old homes that are barely fit for living in and highly polluting.

          The problem is lack of building and especially lack of social housing. Social housing was a great way for people to move up in the world. A decent home with low rent that allowed them to save for their own place.

          • The problem with "housing standards" is that the standards have pushed the cost per dwelling unit for new construction so high, especially in urban areas with high land values, that you just can't build new housing at rents which are affordable.

            I'd argue we need some flexibility to build housing to lower standards so we can lower the cost per dwelling unit. I don't know what this means without sacrificing safety, but it might mean sacrificing energy efficiency, handicap accessibility, or other material qua

            • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

              The standards contribute very little to the cost of housing, it's mostly the land cost and developers wanting to maximise profits.

              We should look at housing as infrastructure, the same as roads. Mostly built by or for government (under contract) and sold or rented as cheaply as possible for the benefit of citizens. The government is already involved even when house building is done commercially, e.g. adopting the roads and providing services like schools.

              • That's not what I've heard from people building housing. The construction cost per square foot of housing is a pretty well known figure and it's pretty high due to material costs and required building codes (which also drives material costs).

                We could use subsidies to make more housing available at rates affordable to existing incomes, but this is just an indirect way of dealing with income inequality and chances are that the non-rich would wind up paying some big chunk of it. It would probably also create

                • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

                  That doesn't make a lot of sense. For example exterior insulation is only needed on the exterior of the house and is very cheap to install at build time. Things like solar panels are also cheap to install during build, along with the wiring and inverter, and don't scale linearly with the square footage of the dwelling.

                  Actually square footage is another major problem with housing in the UK. Our houses are extremely small by European standards, and it causes various problems. For example the kitchen is often

            • The idea of a âoedormâ for adults was in common in Soviet Russia and was one of the big reasons that people hated it. Being forced to live with strangers is extremely unpleasant. We have the income and wealth to let people live in ways that respect their privacy and need for personal space.

              We have enough space to give every single person a 1000 sq ft apartment when they start up their life at 18-22 with the expectation that soon their significant other will move in with them and the two people
        • It is an issue that the new building built were used for office, and the one with houses for higher value rent. Why rent to 300 persons in a bar building with the high risk and deprecation when you can build high value flat and rent to lower risk and higher value ? The things is NOBODY want to build massive low value flat.
        • by kackle ( 910159 )
          If we theoretically deported all the illegal immigrants tomorrow, do you think there would be "enough" housing, then? They estimate there are a few 10s of millions here. I'd guess the number is much higher though, from the things I see [suntimes.com] all over. Maybe this is where the cheap housing went; it's seems so in the cities around me anyway.
    • Re:So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

      by apoc.famine ( 621563 ) <apoc.famine@gm[ ].com ['ail' in gap]> on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:43PM (#60512998) Journal

      Yeah, so what! Previous generations could afford a house on a single salary and had pensions. But whatever. That's really not important. Previous generations could earn a middle class income on just a high school education, while current generations can't even with a college degree or two. Big deal.

      There is literally nothing to be concerned about here.

      There can be no economic impacts if there's an entire generation that can't afford to get on with life, get married, buy a house, and raise a family. I mean seriously, what could those people possibly contribute to society?

      I mean, people in the 1800s lived far worse than this. And that's the logical standard of living we should really be comparing the state of things to.

      • by aralin ( 107264 )

        This is not a problem of the politicians, but the Universities. They teach you stuff you don't need at cost you cannot afford, meanwhile we have an acute shortage of people that can do basic math, compose correctly structured short essay, learn a foreign language and break their thoughts into self-contained parts. As you call them... programmers.

      • Re: So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

        by Kitkoan ( 1719118 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @10:00PM (#60513768)
        Previous generations didn't spend spend, panic spend anything like today's generation though. I work with a lot of millenials, and it blows my mind how much they spend on things they just don't need to. They seem to do it for reasons of they are scared of being viewed as "poor" (a la forever keeping up with the Jones) and they feel entitled to the same standard of living their parents worked 30 years to attain. Previous generations didn't have to have the newest flagship phone pretty much every year, and a huge cellphone bill to match it, they didnt come to work having spent $15 for Starbucks breakfast, they didn't go out for lunch on their breaks, they didn't go out 3+ times a week for food (going out was viewed as a special event, now it's expected), didn't think they had to buy a house in the most expensive places in the country (most people bought houses in the suburbs because it was in their budget). What I notice the most of the millennials around me (maybe you're different....) they claim that their parents had it easier, but seem to not realize all these extra things they spend spend spend on all the time, their parents didn't spend on all the time/went without. And those extras add up to a huge amount per year. Stop panic spending and suddenly you can notice, yes, you can have it better then it seems.
        • Re: So what? (Score:5, Interesting)

          by Voyager529 ( 1363959 ) <voyager529@yahoo. c o m> on Thursday September 17, 2020 @12:50AM (#60514188)

          I think there is definitely something to be said about doing better with living within one's means, but I'd similarly argue that there's a lot of suppositions there.

          Most of my millennial friends don't have flagship phones. A handful do, but the majority either have midrange phones (commonly 0% financed through the carrier), or only have a flagship phone because they got it to replace their three-year-old phone whose screen was cracked for more of its lifespan than it wasn't.

          $15 at Starbucks for one person is pretty atypical. To be fair, I do remember my sister having a Starbucks habit that exceeded that for a little while there, but again, not typical. Personally, I'm more a 7-11 person, and it's not even every day. $10/week for coffee isn't going to alter the calculus on owning a home.

          Yes, my cell bill is high, relatively speaking. I also pay for four people to be on my plan as a way of helping out my family. I could cut them all off to save money, but contributing to one's family takes several forms. If we can shift slightly but still remain in telecom world for the moment, I have basic cable, one box, basic internet tier, brought my own modem and router...and still pay $180/month no matter how many times I call my carrier and ask them to get me on the $60/month for life plan I would have had if I didn't become a customer three years prior...Starlink can't come soon enough as far as I'm concerned.

          I'll commonly get food 'out', but when I've done the math, my options seem to be either 'spend about the same to do grocery shopping when adjusted for food spoilage', or "live on nonperishables, typically carbohydrates, that I'm trying to be concious of and limit my intake". I probably could do better on that front if I was more intentional about it, but even if it ends up being $40/month different, that's not exactly the sort of money that would make or break my 401(k).

          Some of my friends have been able to get houses they can afford. Sometimes their parents helped them out, other times they were handy and willing to buy a fixer-upper, at least one friend got a good job in finance and can legit afford a good home...and still others made the terrible life choice of "deciding to become a teacher instead of pursuing a STEM or law degree", meaning that they're either in apartments that cost well over 1/3 their net monthly income because it's all they could afford, others got trapped in debt early (the "help your family not-lose their house" sort of debt, not "credit card debt fueling crappy spending habits" debt) and can't even get a debt consolidation loan because their debt to income ratio is currently too high as it is.

          Yes. My generation can learn to live with their means, myself included. There are probably some worse spenders than myself as well; like most other broad generalizations, there's a spectrum. Even so, let's take a few numbers and compare them:
          --The average annual wage of those between the ages of 24-37 in a given region of the country
          --The average cost of a home in those same regions of the country

          The rule of thumb I was taught is that you're supposed to look for a house that costs twice one's annual salary. Admittedly I live in a more expensive region of the country (not SFBA or NYC), but I did a quick look at houses in a 10 mile radius of my office and I can't find one for less than four times my annual salary (most of them are going from five to ten times that amount)...and I work in IT. Maybe I'm somewhat underpaid and the houses near me are somewhat overpriced, but the math isn't even close. I could get a 50% raise and all but three of the houses I looked at would still be in excess of three years' income.

          I'm not a Bernie Bro. I don't think owning a house is my God-given right and I agree that it is advantageous and virtuous to live within my means. But I do believe that there is at least some argument to be had that the inability for Millennials to own a home isn't purely the result of too many iPhones and lattes on one's Discover card.

          • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

            All of my Gen X friends who managed to buy houses did so when a relative died and they inherited enough wealth to put down a deposit and get a mortgage.

            Millennials know this and know they are screwed because their parents already got the inheritance and are going to live for another 40 years before they get a taste.

        • Not meaning this to sound like a dick, but in my position it feels easy to observe others; As someone who is quite successful now i feel the "have not paid yets" make up 90% of society when they use to only make up maybe 50%. I live in a normal 5 bed house within my means but probably earn 5-10x more than most people on my street. Meanwhile the mansions up the street might as well be rented as most of the families living in them seem to consume all their income on new cars, taxes and gadgets. The weirdes

        • Re: So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

          by mobby_6kl ( 668092 ) on Thursday September 17, 2020 @04:29AM (#60514538)

          This is absolute nonsense. I mean yeah some people spend too much on avocado toast or whatever but that's not the reason they can't afford to buy a house.

          • The incomes, especially for the bottom ~90%, have increased slowly while major unavoidable expenses have not:
          • Housing costs are going through the roof
          • Healthcare costs are going through the roof
          • Education costs are going through the roof

          It doesn't matter how many soy lattes you drink when you have to pay $500+/month for your student debt, $500+ for insurance and $2000 for a shitty apartment.

          • Re: So what? (Score:5, Insightful)

            by apoc.famine ( 621563 ) <apoc.famine@gm[ ].com ['ail' in gap]> on Thursday September 17, 2020 @07:57AM (#60515000) Journal

            Bingo.

            If people switched from flagships to secondary brands, or from new phones to old phones, if they made their own coffee instead of going Starbucks, that's not going to free up enough money for a house.

            People are buying the feel-good products because that's all they can buy.

            And even if they could scrimp and save up for a house, job security is to tenuous for so many people that it doesn't look like a wise choice.

            My dad bought his first house at 19 with an associate's degree. I bought a cheap condo at 34 with a bachelors and two masters. That was the point in my life where I felt I had the financial stability to take on property ownership. And since then, it looks like it's only gotten worse.

        • Re: So what? (Score:4, Insightful)

          by AmiMoJo ( 196126 ) on Thursday September 17, 2020 @04:39AM (#60514560) Homepage Journal

          In the 1980s the economy shifted to one based on debt, particularly household debt. Instead of renting you should own a home with a big loan. Instead of public transport you should own a car, with a loan. Everything should be bought with loans because then they get to charge you the purchase price and interest, and you think your quality of life is improving because now you can afford a nicer car and own property.

          Of course we saw how that went back in 2008. Problem is we are stuck with it and young people today don't have any choice but to play the game. Education costs them money, rents are insane, house prices are insane, not having a garage/driveway to fix their own car means they can't buy a banger and need something reliable... And people criticise them for spending a bit on entertainment or little luxuries that take the edge off their cursed existence.

          This won't get fixed for a very long time because the people who screwed it all up in the 80s are now reliant on the young for their income, particularly from property.

          • by reanjr ( 588767 )

            "young people today don't have any choice but to play the game"

            That's not really true. None of this renting behavior is necessary. But they don't even realize the game they are playing, so they're not checking the rules.

          • Personal debt yes but also national debt [zfacts.com]. Jimmy Carter was really the last fiscally conservative President and anybody can see that didn't work out, politically.
            • Jimmy Carter was really the last fiscally conservative President and anybody can see that didn't work out, politically.

              According to your link, the national debt went down under Clinton. Doesn't that count as "fiscally conservative"?

        • Most young people can't afford to go out any more than your grandparents could.

          But there is also lifestyle choices. A cyberpunk lifestyle ("digital nomad") does make sense these days, especially with cardboard houses that blow away with the next hurricane or burn down next fire-season costing 400 000 USD a pop. So the kid working part-time freelance sitting in a cafe might actually have a cheaper lifestyle that someone back in the day doing a "regular" job.

        • Really? You are going to go the "avocado toast" route on this?

          Holy shit dude. I am established and not poor (currently) but even I can see how rough the younger generation has it. My economic experience was much worse than my parents and my children have it MUCH worse than I had when I was their age.

          For the entirety of my life, the economic situation as a whole for me and most other Americans has been nosediving, not merely getting a little worse. When I was young, college was fucking expensive, but possibl

      • Re:So what? (Score:4, Insightful)

        by Tony Isaac ( 1301187 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @10:58PM (#60513912) Homepage

        Previous generations lived in houses that were maybe 1,000 square feet. A "car phone" was a luxury, families had only one TV and one car because that is all they could afford. Those pensions didn't work out so well, companies went broke because they couldn't afford to keep them solvent.

        Now, we own so much stuff we can't even fit them in our much larger houses. Ever noticed how many rental storage places line the roads? Those units are mostly full.

        We don't have an income problem, we have a spending problem.

        • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

          Back then car phones and TVs were extremely expensive. Now you can get a big TV for 150 bucks, or for free as a hand-me-down. I pay 5 quid/month for a phone contract and a basic phone is only 100 quid or again free as a hand-me-down.

          Times change, things that were expensive get cheap. Other things, like houses, get much much more expensive. Even living frugally it will take a young person on an average way decades to save enough to get a house, and by then prices will probably have risen anyway.

          • And job security isn't a thing anymore, which makes owning a house even more risky.

            There was a period of many decades where most people had pretty stable jobs. Where they had pensions. Where they could plan for the future.

            If you work for a corporation of any medium or larger size, you don't have that luxury. Mergers and acquisitions are rampant, and the entire game is keeping the profits high to keep the stock price going up. Layoffs are not a once-in-a-lifetime traumatic event. They're every few years, rel

          • That's precisely my point, we live differently now than 100 years ago, we expect more now than then.

            My 22-year-old son got an entry-level job with AT&T and made enough to move out into his own apartment. Rent was $800 per month. That's not what kills people's hopes of being independent. But when you add $150/month cable bills, + $150/month cell phone bills, plus 10+ streaming services, plus food delivery for every meal, those things add up. If independence is a goal for a young adult, it is achievable.

            • by AmiMoJo ( 196126 )

              Are there even 10+ streaming services? Maybe in the US, I don't know.

              But okay let's say they save $300/month by cutting down the bills. After 10 years they have a $36,000 deposit towards a house, how far will that get them?

              In the UK the answer is "nowhere", I guess in the US it depends on the area.

              • by reanjr ( 588767 )

                After ten years of shoveling that money into index funds, you can actually expect about $80k.

    • Also, access to running water, electricity and healthcare are all modern day privileges. These new generations are softies! MEGA!
    • by Ogive17 ( 691899 )
      I think it is both good and bad at the same time. It's good in that it brings back a bit more family structure and gives the young adults a nice safety net to get things going. It's bad in that it's a signal that it's getting increasingly difficult for that generation to find good employment.

      I know I'll do everything I can to make sure my son is independent and I hope he's ready for his own life in his early to mid 20s but I'll make sure he's financially sound before I put any pressure on him to leave t
    • by rastos1 ( 601318 )
      Because we are supposed to improve; to be better off then previous generations.
  • by Camel Pilot ( 78781 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:14PM (#60512894) Homepage Journal

    House and rent prices are through the roof in desirable places.

    This I believe is due to an exodus from metropolitan areas combined with too much money in the hands of the wealthy. Wealthy people are looking for places to horde money and two go-to assets are stocks and real estate. Both are inflated and continue to rise unabated. The Covid19 bailout with PPP have enriched many business owner as the Federal Gov't has sponsored their cost of labor for a significant part of the year.

    Income inequality continues its expansion. And now they are talking about another round of PPP.

    • Sure prices are high, but that is also because there is limited housing and too many people. Supply and demand.

      Too many people. I live in what used to be considered mostly country nearby a few small towns and lots of farmland, in 40 years it has become the suburbs, and then apartments popped up everywhere. Calling this area the suburbs is now generous.
    • In many cities, such as Houston, it's possible to rent a three-bedroom house for $1,000 a month. Rent is only impossibly high in places where policies restrict building, such as San Francisco.

  • by ErichTheRed ( 39327 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:17PM (#60512904)

    I'm solidly mid-career (mid 40s) and I think the pandemic is only one reason these numbers are high. Lots of "my generation" likes to say younger people are entitled and self centered and have no drive or whatever, but the reality is that it's harder for most of them than it was for us. Education is way more expensive than it was when I graduated, so students are starting off much further in the hole even if they were careful borrowers. It's just not possible to juggle full time school, internships, other networking activities you're expecting to attend, etc. with a full time job if you're studying anything remotely technical. In addition, companies have been thinning out their entry level workforces, sending jobs that new graduates would once do to offshore locations or just not doing those tasks at all anymore. Again back when I graduated, you could be a solid C student partying your way to a business/psychology/communications degree, and companies would just show up to a career session and practically take the first 50 people who could speak full sentences and looked somewhat presentable. They'd get some random entry level job shuffling paper or on the trade show circuit or whatever, but they'd at least have a start.

    Of course, people love to hold up the "learn to code" card and show how young people are/were striking it rich at FAANGs, startups and other tech companies. While true, this path isn't available to everyone and this shouldn't be the only way to earn a decent living. Most people just aren't suited for the work no matter what education you give them. In addition, there's a bucketload of people just chasing the Second Dotcom Bubble money who have no aptitude for development, IT, DevOps, whatever you want to call it. All of these people would be happier doing something else, but someone told them there was money in them computer fields.

    I think the tech bubble is hiding or at least blurring a lot of the issues. Under the surface, there really is less chance for someone to succeed the same way we did, so it's no shocker that younger people are moving back home. Some of it's practical...I certainly wouldn't want to be trapped in my $4500 a month SF or NYC studio apartment when I could easily move back home and have more space. Unfortunately I think things are going to get worse. Jobs that are work-from-homeable seem to be less willing to take chances on new entrants, and of course there are still plenty of jobs where you have to show up. As much as people want to hurry automation along (but of course not replace it with a UBI or anything...) I think we need to preserve some way for new graduates to make back their investment on education and get a start in life. No one...OK, well, almost no one...wants to be 30 and living in their bedroom because there's no opportunity for them.

    • by Chaset ( 552418 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @08:19PM (#60513392) Homepage Journal

      Along that line of thought, I did a little research experiment last year and looked up some numbers in the area where I lived after graduation.
      Compared to when I "struck out on my own",
      -Same degree from the same school cost 2.5x.
      -Same kinds of apartment in the same area cost 2.5x
      -Entry level pay in the same kind of industry in the same area was maybe 10% more.

      It's apparent that a version of me starting out today would have the deck stacked against me compared to what I had, and that was before the pandemic. Things are going to break, possibly violently, in the US. I hope I'm not around to see it.

    • This is 180 degrees off in my experiences. I'm same age range as you, and have lived and worked in a few areas of the U.S. While there's definitely stark contrasts in the cost of living (looking at you, failed coastal states) that doesn't really impact the number and availability of entry level jobs. You know, the jobs that kids and young adults get to put a few discretionary bucks in their pockets while their parents watch them learn first hand how the real world works. The jobs they use to light that

    • Re: (Score:3, Insightful)

      by reanjr ( 588767 )

      Education is not that expensive. It's only expensive if you need your school to have a football team and wave pools. Community college is maybe $3k/year depending on where you luve. That's $6k for half of a bachelor's right there. You can save that up by working shitty jobs for a couple years out of high school. After that, you should be able to find a better job to fund the rest of your education, if you deem it necessary.

      And if you don't know what your major is going to be, you shouldn't even be in s

  • by backslashdot ( 95548 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:22PM (#60512918)

    Is it a problem? Probably a good idea in fact. I have been living on my own since I was in my mid teens. Freedom! yay! Umm no. More like struggle all the time, fucking up, dealing with bullshit probably up until I crawled out my 20s. And no it doesn't build character or any other BS lies. You have no idea. Stay home, dont get sidelined, educate yourself in a useful skill (something people would pay you for), save your money to start a business or buy a house. Note, when I say stay home I don't mean sit around .. get a job, or an education (courses are freely available online now, so you have zero excuse), something. Don't waste your time, especially not your 20s.

  • by magzteel ( 5013587 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:24PM (#60512926)

    All of my suburban neighbors have adult age kids (and spouses and their kids) who have moved back due to covid.
    The kids were living in New York city, and they moved back either due to job loss or safety concerns.
    My next door neighbor alone went from a household of 2 to a household of 8, with no plan for it to end any time soon.

    In my case the kids never left, but it's fine with me. I tell them they have a home for as long as they want it.

  • by dicobalt ( 1536225 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:39PM (#60512982)
    Doing business with countries who devalue labor has a price. It guts the middle class for the sake of cheaper toys.
  • Boomers (Score:3, Insightful)

    by reanjr ( 588767 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @06:39PM (#60512984) Homepage

    The boomers scooped up all the wealth in the nation and shoveled it into their homes. This is the expected result.

  • Yeah, I lived at home until I was 29. The only reason I moved out was because my parents moved out first.

  • by bustinbrains ( 6800166 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @07:01PM (#60513056)

    This is probably going to monkey with election results. Mass sudden movements of a sufficiently large population group always messes with districts and voting. So whatever numbers you are hearing now could actually result in wildly different results come November. All of that constant manipulation of district lines is probably gonna backfire gloriously.

    • Interesting. I have wondered if 'moving back home' will increase voter turnout among youth, simply because my 20 and 22 yo 'kids' are back home and we'll go together to vote. Historically this is a demographic that often 'forgets' when the time actually rolls around.
  • hard to be on your own with an $200K student loan to pay off.

    • So don't borrow 200K to get college education. Not necessary.. Hell my first year salary was equal to my four total college expense.

    • by dcw3 ( 649211 )

      If you ended up with a $200k loan, you have nobody to blame but yourself.

  • by Miles_O'Toole ( 5152533 ) on Wednesday September 16, 2020 @07:17PM (#60513132)

    I can't imagine living at home from 18 - 29, even though my parents were great. I worked hard and played hard, and I have never needed a lot of sleep. Basically, my lifestyle would have been disruptive to my parents' lifestyle and (wink, wink) moral standards.

    So I moved out when I was 18 and never went back except for big family holidays. Living alone I could keep whatever hours I liked, sleep with whoever I wanted whenever I wanted, have dinner when I got home from work, even if that was at midnight, and watch a movie at 2am with the volume up if I felt like it.

    To be clear: my parents wouldn't have pulled any "my house, my rules" crap (like the parents of a lot of people I have known), but my lifestyle would have had an impact on them. They didn't need that, and neither did I. Having a place to call my own, and being responsible for it, helped me grow up. I feel incredibly sorry for kids/young adults today who don't have this opportunity.

    • This. I want my kids to feel confident enough to spread their wings and fly when they are 18. But how are they meant to do that if they can't afford housing costs. I think it's just so ridiculous where 'free market' thinking has taken us. We have all the technology and resources to build enough housing if we want, but we all sit around staring at each other and eventually throw our hands up and say it's not possible - we have to spend our time at work getting people to click on ads for things they aren't go

      • That's one of the best summaries of post-WWII America I've ever read. Canada has gone down a sadly similar path, though not nearly so far as America. We have universal health care, for example, but it is constantly under attack and is gradually being whittled away by service providers euphemistically referred to as "Public-Private Partnerships".

  • So, in many cultures it's much more common to live with an expanded family. If we're to compare apples to apples, we need to see the demographic changes over time.

  • The pandemic was just the last straw.

    Maybe you're making two or four times what you did 20 years ago. Meanwhile, multimillionaires have become billionaires, and companies have become trillion-dollar concerns.

    And so we're back to where we were at the beginning of the 20th century, when most folks lived in multigenerational homes.

    Oh, but back then, they weren't brainwashed against unions, and for tax cuts for the rich.

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