Facebook User Arrested For a Poke 394
nk497 writes "A woman in Tennessee has been arrested for poking someone over Facebook. Sharon Jackson had been banned by courts from 'telephoning, contacting or otherwise communicating' with the apparent poke recipient, but just couldn't hold back from clicking the 'poke' button. She now faces a sentence of up to a year in prison."
No communication is no communication. (Score:5, Insightful)
The system works!
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:5, Insightful)
Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:5, Insightful)
Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.
It's not newsworthy that a restraining order was violated. It's newsworthy that law enforcement are looking at the violation regardless of the communication channel. It's one more step towards realizing we don't need to create new laws with "e-this, or cyber-that" to have them apply to Internet traffic.
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:5, Insightful)
How can they be 100% sure it was the restrainee that did the poking?
(Yes, I'm serious.)
If restraining orders include Internet contact, then it means you can send someone to jail if you can forge a packet from their machine. That's really scary. Sure the restrainee shouldn't have done whatever they did to get the restraining order in the first place, but making it so anyone in the world can send them to jail seems excessive.
Also, what if they're both bidding on the same online auction? What if they're both Anonymous Cowards on /. ? What if they meet by accident on an online game? Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:5, Funny)
Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?
Ah, the great questions of the universe...
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Dumb questions all answered by real life restraining order laws.
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:4, Interesting)
I can certainly imagine what _should_ probably happen (second person informs the first person, _then_ if contact does not cease, the first person has violated the restraining order), but I'm finding it difficult to match that to a real life situation, so I can't imagine such a situation is already handled.
Though.. I guess a possible real life analogue may be something like the first person writing a letter that appears in the local newspaper, with the second person writing a letter to the newspaper in response to that, going back and forth using the newspaper as the medium instead of
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:5, Informative)
Most if not all restraining orders require a level of knowingly to be in violation. In other words, you need to prove your actions where completely innocent of being in violation of the order when happenstance places you in violation of the order. If you hang out somewhere where the protected person usually goes, then chances are, your not going to get away with it. However, if your shopping and happen to run into the person, then your obligated to correct anything that might be in violation. When the circumstances are outside of your control, like maybe you were in an auto accident and rushed to the same emergency room the other person might be at for different reasons, then it waits until you are able to control your own actions.
What this means is that if the contact is unknowingly, then as soon as it's reasonably known or suspected, you have to take corrective actions to be in compliance with the order. So if two AC accounts or pseudonyms turn out to be in violation of the order and there is nothing to suggest it was intentional, they aren't technically in violation until one or the other figures it out. If it's the protected person who does it first, then the cops will inform the restrained, if it's the restrained who figures it out first, they have to cease any actions that would violate the order as soon as they are aware of it.
This isn't really something new to E-law as it happens all the time in real life. Imagine how many times you randomly run into an ex somewhere when it isn't expected. Now imagine that Ex is the restrained person of a protective order who didn't do anything to cause the run in. It's actually that common outside some court order will list specific places where the person isn't allowed to go. I've seen them list places of employment, parks close to homes of protected people, schools, and so on when trolling court documents. Here is a site that explains [columbuscityattorney.org] a little more about them in my state. I have no reason to believe they word much differently in other states. That site deals mostly with domestic violence but it does have some input about when you find yourself in the same place as the restrained further down the page.
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:5, Insightful)
This doesn't mean they need to create new laws for "e-this, or cyber-that" just that they have to do due diligence to confirm the guilt of the accused.
Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:5, Insightful)
How can they be 100% sure it was the restrainee that did the poking?
(Yes, I'm serious.)
If restraining orders include Internet contact, then it means you can send someone to jail if you can forge a packet from their machine. That's really scary. Sure the restrainee shouldn't have done whatever they did to get the restraining order in the first place, but making it so anyone in the world can send them to jail seems excessive.
You'd be amazed with what you can do with a piece of paper, a typewriter, an envelope, and a stamp. Just because it involves the Internet, doesn't mean it's ground that hasn't been covered before.
Also, what if they're both bidding on the same online auction? What if they're both Anonymous Cowards on /. ? What if they meet by accident on an online game? Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?
What if they're both submitting write-in bids to a well-established auction house? What if they're both writing commentary to their local newspaper? What if they're both competitive Scrabble players climbing through the ranks of the local Scrabble circuit? As for teabagging - that's the sort of immature behavior that leads to retraining orders as it is. Once again - this isn't scary or even all that novel. What's scary is that people will treat it as if it is.
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Re: burden of proof / implications on free speech (Score:4, Funny)
Does teabagging in Halo violate the restraining order?
Or what about teabagging in City of Heroes?
http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y129/Scarletdown/COH/COH-Teabag.jpg [photobucket.com]
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Ever thought of running for office? Quite serious.
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:4, Insightful)
Actually, I'm glad they had common sense here.
Would her updates appearing on his web page get her arrested for 'contacting' him? What about if he were subscribed to a mailing list or newsgroup that she posted in? What about if she had one of those Facebook apps that likes to spam send him a message saying something like, "I know a secret about you! Click here to learn it!"?
There are gray areas for technology, but this isn't one of them, unless the program 'poked' him automatically. Also, if they're still 'friends' on Facebook, the restraining order should be nullified.
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Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:4, Insightful)
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see how absurd that is when you apply it to the physical world.
well he wasn't applying it to the physical world was he? let's put your pointless strawman aside for now.
The victim probably has so many friends she didn't think to remove the offender.
but she thought to get a restraining order? maybe she has so many restraining orders she gets confused
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:5, Insightful)
While she was filing a restraining order, it seems like de-friending the person might have been a reasonable thing to think about.
Facebook de-friending is at most a 60-second process. Even if she "forgot" to do it, she can notice the poke, and then do it. Yes, we have restraining orders so that people don't have take drastic steps like change residences to get away from someone. But shouldn't there be SOME aspect of personal responsibility in this process, so the government doesn't have to protect you from your own voluntary connections on social networking websites?
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There's also no reason the person with the order against them should have initiated an action which they knew would result in a message being sent from them to the user with whom they were ordered not to communicate. They made a personal decision to flaunt against the restraining order, and now they are paying for their decision. If they were intelligent and responsible, they would have unfriended the other individual as soon as they got the restraining order. I can't feel too bad for them, although I do th
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:5, Interesting)
I thought the story should have been "Moron That Got Restraining Order Kept Woman as an Unblocked Person on Facebook" myself. Seriously if you go through the hassle of a restraining order, perhaps you should add them to your block list.
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Poke someone and end up in the pokey!
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Curious question, does anyone else when downloading software that asks for an email address, give the company their own email address b
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Sort of off-topic, but did you realize that the "e-mail address" field on the Quicktime download page is optional? And even if you did enter it, you can uncheck both boxes, and you won't receive e-mail anyway? It's not spam if you requested it.
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"...does anyone else when downloading software that asks for an email address, give the company their own email address back to them?"
They do now. Wonderful idea. Thanks.
Re:No communication is no communication. (Score:4, Informative)
Is a poke really communication?
I'm thinking of people who send random pokes to their contact lists all the time, without any actual communication meaning to them.
Moreover... poking on Facebook only actually works if the person has added you as their friend.
If you went to court to get a no-contact order against someone else, why the heck would you add or keep them as your friend on facebook?
Everything status update, every message you post shows up as a communication to all your friends... so you're actually initiating contact with them!
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A "poke" is a lot more direct than a status update, you have to specifically initiate it, and you specifically direct it to a person.
But if it's really a poke, then I don't understand why they're still "friends".
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I removed friends from Facebook but they still show up in my user profile updates and it still gives me the option to poke them. Obviously she was Friends with the one who did the restraining order, and her friend removed her, but Facebook still gave her options for a friend that was removed. It is a bug in Facebook that they are trying to fix.
I write for Uncyclopedia and other humor web sites and people add me as friends via email address, and sometimes it autoaccepts them even if I didn't hit "approve" it
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Is a poke really communication?
I'm thinking of people who send random pokes to their contact lists all the time, without any actual communication meaning to them.
Moreover... poking on Facebook only actually works if the person has added you as their friend.
If you went to court to get a no-contact order against someone else, why the heck would you add or keep them as your friend on facebook?
Everything status update, every message you post shows up as a communication to all your friends... so you're actually initiating contact with them!
In the case of two friends it might be completely meaningless. In the case of someone with a restraining order against the other: what do you think? Look if you're so careless that you "accidently" communicate, in any way, with someone which has a restraining order against you, then I hope the judge hands out at least one implied facepalm. [roflposters.com]
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If you went to court to get a no-contact order against someone else, why the heck would you add or keep them as your friend on facebook?
Everything status update, every message you post shows up as a communication to all your friends... so you're actually initiating contact with them!
This. Why /was/ the plaintiff still a Facebook friend with the defendant?
The defendant is still somewhat culpable (why, too, was she friended with the other?) but it's not hard to disallow any communication from another Facebook user. I've set my account to deny access to & not be searchable by this idiot who threatened me with meatspace violence because the stupid meathead didn't understand acceptable behavior.
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It sure as fucking hell is "communication" in the spirit of it.
Listen, it's very bloody simple: A judge ORDERED you to leave some person alone. Do NOT approach them. Do NOT contact them. Do NOT communicate with them in any way.
If you show up outside their house, and wave at them, or at their facebook-page and poke them, or send a SMS, or in any other way directly contacts the person you're -NOT- allowed to contact, you're in violation. It's completely mindboggling that this is even a question.
Now, if she cl
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I'm thinking they need a "Send Lawyers" button to the right of "Ask mafia to attack"
Or "Create Restraining Order"
Yes, it is communication. (Score:5, Insightful)
Consider this. Let's say that instead of a "poke", the perp had instead placed a call to the victim's house and hung up after one ring. That kind of nonsense occurs all the time in these situations, and everyone pretty much agrees it is a form of harassment that violates the restraining order. The ring itself is exactly the same level of "communication" as the one-ring hang-up move -- it's a way of saying "I'm still here..."
First POKE! (Score:3, Funny)
POKE! POKE! POKE!
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Makes you wonder if the reason for the restraining order was for peeking [wikipedia.org].
Ok, and? (Score:5, Insightful)
A person had a protective order that was allegedly violated. That user was arrested and is getting their due process. News at 11.
Re:Ok, and? (Score:4, Funny)
But it's got a "Web 2.0" social site involved, so it must be New! and Exciting!.
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That's why I stick to the tried and true Web 1.0. You know the old, boring web where "cool" was writing a submission script in perl.
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But it's got a "Web 2.0" social site involved, so it must be New! and Exciting!.
Actually, was the poke performed via IE? We could also discuss evil Microsoft business practices here while we're at it.
In an interview (Score:5, Funny)
Interviewer: Ms. Jackson, how have been your life since you was prohibited from comunicating?
Sharon Jackson: ...
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Hey, interviewer, that's just mean.
Ms. Jackson was prohibited from communicating for being an overzealous grammar nazi.
And she should get a year (Score:5, Insightful)
There is a restraining order in force that says "no contact". No contact on a restraining order means just that...NO contact. Just because its a "poke" doesn't mean it doesn't count. Haul her stupid ass in and make her face what ever consequences were specified in the original order.
No sympathy what so ever. The stupid deserve what they get.
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The stupid deserve what they get.
Yes, and if you are too stupid to un-friend the person you have a restraining order against, perhaps you deserve a poke.
Re:And she should get a year (Score:4, Insightful)
I definitely would not unfriend them. If "Sharon poked you!" is a violation then I'm not confident that "Sharon unfriended you!" is different.
Then again, if you don't unfriend her, everything you do shows up on her feed (right? I don't use facebook), which is even worse. I guess I'd stay away from the facebook account.
Re:And she should get a year (Score:4, Informative)
Re:And she should get a year (Score:4, Insightful)
Re:And she should get a year (Score:4, Informative)
Facebook Help says:
"What do I do if someone is harassing me on the site or through Inbox?
We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the...
We suggest that you block the person by listing his or her name in the "Blocking People" box at the bottom of the Privacy page. If this does not resolve the problem, please report the user by clicking the 'Report/Block person' link that appears at the bottom of the user's profile. To report a user for a message you have received, use the report link located next to the message in your inbox."
Victim who got the TRO should have blocked that woman from his/her Facebook profile. Then there would have been no poke.
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I did a quick try and you can not poke people who haven't "friended" you.
You can if they share their profile publicly.
Its too obvious... (Score:4, Funny)
court order (Score:5, Insightful)
The court order prohibited communication between the two directly or indirectly. A poke is a form of communication that was recognised by the court as being in violation of the order. The order its self could be wrong but the interpretation of the poke as being a form of communication and thus breaching the court order is correct.
Good (Score:5, Insightful)
Restraining orders aren't jokes. If the poker really was the person subject to the restraining order (and not someone else spoofing), she deserves whatever punishment would have come her way if she had telephoned, dropped by in person, or in any other, more conventional way, violated the order.
can't find her (Score:2)
am I the only one who went to facebook and was disappointed when the "filter by location" thing returned on results on Sharon Jackson from tennessee? I wanted to poke her (can you even poke random people who aren't your "friends"? I don't even know, this is the first time I intentionally go to facebook hoping I'll find something interesting there)
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I wanted to poke her (can you even poke random people who aren't your "friends"?>
I tried just now and you can not poke the "unfriended".
I tried to "poke" my sister and asked her to check it since we aren't "friends" and it didn't work.
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That's because it's Shannon D Jackson, not Sharon.
In my day... (Score:5, Funny)
a poke got you infinite lives, not arrested. /get off my 8-bit lawn
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I'll get off your lawn now.
Re:In my day... (Score:4, Funny)
Proven Guilty? (Score:2)
TFA didn't imply that the accuser furnished any actual proof of this. Is facebook required to hand over their "poke logs"?
1) File a restraining order
2) Download Firebug and alter web page
3) ??
4) Proof-it
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You seem to imply that you read TFA, but you clearly didn't; half of the first page is spent on the accused's lawyer stating the following:
- The only evidence thus far is a screen grab
- They're working with Facebook to get some concrete evidence
Therefore, you've proven you didn't read TFA despite implying you did ;)
Furthermore, it's unclear whether said screen grab was from the victim's own computer, or if someone else took the screen grab. (I don't use Facebook; can you see pokes on other people's account
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Oh, I didn't mean to imply that the claim was false, only that my parent post was misrepresenting himself/herself ;)
My "Furthermore" was only meant to suggest that if you can in fact see pokes on other people's accounts, then you can easily disprove the Firebug theory.
Okay... (Score:5, Informative)
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You can poke non-friends, but that's irrelevant. The point is this: If Bob has been ordered by the court not to contact Sue, and he contacts Sue, he is at fault. Period. It is not up to Sue to prevent Bob from contacting him (she already did that by getting the fucking restraining order in the first place). Bob is responsible for his own actions.
This is an issue of personal responsibility. Yes, there are steps Sue can take to avoid Bob. Yes, some of those steps may be smart things to do. But, even if Sue d
Ok .. so who did it? (Score:2, Insightful)
(Playing devil's advocate here)
Yes we all agree that the woman should get locked up for breaching a restraining order .. IF SHE DID IT.
The question I have is how do you prove this?
She could have simply been stalking her victim on facebook and her cat walked across the keyboard at an inappropriate moment et voila one cat induced restraining order breach.
Any number of things from another household member to a hacked computer could have done this, so what is the level of proof required to lock her away. I hop
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Something doesn't make sense (Score:2)
Facebook only allows you to poke your friends, right? With a restraining order in place, how did these two have such a relationship in the first place?
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I don't know the details but it could be that the two were friends at one point and did not bother to unfriend each other.
thought you could only poke a friend ? (Score:3, Interesting)
I thought you could only poke a friend, which would mean they both agreed to add each other and thus allow interaction. If the facebook friendship was initiated before the initial court order wouldn't that require that it be ended by both parties and the act of keeping it would mean there was an agreement between both parties ? That's sorta like getting a restraining order and continuing to live with the person you had teh order againts.
Re:thought you could only poke a friend ? (Score:5, Informative)
You can poke strangers as long as their profile is public, I just checked.
-b
The obvious question? (Score:2)
Yep, not really news. Would "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Calling and Hanging Up" make the front page? Even "Woman with a Restraining Order Against Her Arrested for Texting" wouldn't raise any eyebrows.
It's not newsworthy that a restraining order was violated. It's newsworthy that law enforcement are looking at the violation regardless of the communication channel. It's one more step towards realizing we don't need to create new laws with "e-this, or cyber-that" to have them apply to Internet traffic.
Why is this news? (Score:4, Insightful)
Such restraining orders may or may not be justified or reasonable, but she clearly violated the order. I don't see that the fact that a "Facebook poke" was involved is relevant.
Make that Jail (Score:2, Insightful)
More then 365 days = State Prison
Less then 365 days = County Jail
Jail is for pre-trial flight risks, and sentences which are less then one calander year. Less then 1 year, you stay in county lockup, more then that, and you're shipped off to the state pen. A weekend of incarceration is not prison, it's jail. It sucks, yes. But it's not prison. The bodily risk in my experience in county is very minimal, (don't start anything, and you'll be left alone). It's hours upon
Sounds fair to me (Score:2, Funny)
There are way too many poker-faced people who should be in the pokey for poking someone.
That said, they should have forced her FB status update to read "In Prison For Breaking the Law" and changed her FB picture to be that of someone wearing an orange jumpsuit.
The last of the true blue /.ers? (Score:3, Insightful)
I seem to be the only person here who doesn't get this "poking" business. In more ways than one, it would seem.
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Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Funny)
I hope she enjoys getting poked in the pokey.
I don't think you understand the mechanics of lesbian sex...
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Insightful)
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Funny)
I don't think you understand how many here understand mechanics way more than they understand sex.
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I understand quantum sex.
No wait...
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Funny)
> I understand quantum sex.
Me too! With my eyes closed I have the most awesome sex ever with gorgeous women but the moment I look I'm all alone :-/
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Funny)
I don't think you understand how many here understand mechanics way more than they understand sex.
Great, more car metaphors.
Well Timmy, when a daddy car and a mommy car love each other very much...
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:4, Insightful)
This is slashdot, I bet more people thought "physics" than "cars"...
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Shut up. You are annoying as hell.
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But isn't a poke something sexual anyway? I used to be member of a group called "Enough with poking, let's just have sex". Poking is not what it used to be...
You sure about that? [wikipedia.org]
Re:Duh, that's what a restraining order is (Score:5, Informative)
Really, I don't even understand how two women can make love, unless they kind of scissor or something.
Exactly [wikipedia.org]. There's other [wikipedia.org] options [wikipedia.org] too [wikipedia.org].
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Re:redefining "pokie" (Score:5, Insightful)
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Or she accidentally clicked "poke". Obviously far-fetched, but going to jail for a single accidental mouse click is scary stuff.
Re:redefining "pokie" (Score:5, Informative)
You have to confirm pokes. TWO random accidental mouse clicks is highly improbable.
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This is an excellent example of law & tech... (Score:2)
Re:Heavy-handed? (Score:4, Insightful)
Heavy-handed? No. If you've got a restraining order against you, you shouldn't be trying to push boundaries like that.
Re:Heavy-handed? (Score:5, Insightful)
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brb, jail
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The most common reason for restraining orders is harassment and/or abuse. It's a judge saying: You leave that person the hell alone, or face the consequences.
And a wink, a smile, or a wave sure as hell counts as communication in this context, as do calling the victim and hanging up after one ring and a million other ways of harassing someone.
The part which you're missing is that though a wink, or a poke, or a wave, doesn't by itself contain a lot of communication, if someone who has a history of harassing o