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In Booming Job Market, Workers Are 'Ghosting' Their Employers (washingtonpost.com) 479

A notorious millennial dating practice is starting to creep into the workplace: ghosting. Employers are noticing with increasing frequency that workers are leaving their jobs by simply not showing up and cutting off contact with their companies [Editor's note: the link may be paywalled; syndicated source]. From a report: "A number of contacts said that they had been 'ghosted,' a situation in which a worker stops coming to work without notice and then is impossible to contact," the Federal Reserve Bank of Chicago noted in December's Beige Book, which tracks employment trends. National data on economic "ghosting" is lacking. The term, which usually applies to dating, first surfaced in 2016 on Dictionary.com. But companies across the country say silent exits are on the rise. Analysts blame America's increasingly tight labor market. Job openings have surpassed the number of seekers for eight straight months, and the unemployment rate has clung to a 49-year low of 3.7 percent since September. Janitors, baristas, welders, accountants, engineers -- they're all in demand, said Michael Hicks, a labor economist at Ball State University in Indiana. More people may opt to skip tough conversations and slide right into the next thing.
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In Booming Job Market, Workers Are 'Ghosting' Their Employers

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  • by froggyjojodaddy ( 5025059 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:23PM (#57804634)
    ... is good for the gander

    If your company is going to lay you off, it's not like they give you a whole lot of notice in most cases. You turn up for work, bright and eyed and bushy tailed, only to find a Manager and HR type waiting to give you some really bad news

    Sure, most places have severance, but it's not like they take your feelings into consideration so if employees are just up and leaving, that's behavior the corporation does all the time
    • by t0qer ( 230538 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:29PM (#57804674) Homepage Journal

      Have mod points, but I want some of this action today.

      >Sure, most places have severance, but it's not like they take your feelings into consideration so if employees are just up and leaving, that's behavior the corporation does all the time

      Oh I've had worse than that. Once worked for an IT outsourcing firm that was $20 in gas away from my house. Super early in my career, wasn't being paid much (I think $36k@year in 1998 or so)

      They *could* have just let me go over the phone and mailed a check. I KNEW they were letting me go, and I even said several times, "If you're calling me into the office to let me go, just do it over the phone, no reason to call me in"

      "No t0qer it isn't that, just stop by!" the owner said in a cheery voice. Came in, was fired. I raged out on my way out, flipping over chairs and spat on the owners car on my way out.

    • The companies still tell you, âoeYouâ(TM)re fired.â You should at least say, âoeI quit.â
    • Sorry, but no (Score:5, Insightful)

      by SuperKendall ( 25149 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:33PM (#57804704)

      If your company is going to lay you off, it's not like they give you a whole lot of notice in most cases.

      Do you WANT more companies to do that?

      If not why escalate like that?

      Telling other people you plan to leave, is just basic human decency.

      There is nothing good about either side giving the other one no warning about actions like this.

      Besides, the equivalent to what YOU are talking about it not a company laying you off unexpectedly. It's more like if you kept coming to work and after two weeks you just got no paycheck, and the company said "we fired you but dd not tell you".

      • > Telling other people you plan to leave, is just basic human decency.

        Telling other people you plan to ${ fire | lay off | downsize } them is just basic human decency.

        Oh, but businesses have no basic human decency.

        If you were to tell an employer that you were leaving, that would give them advance opportunity to begin looking for your replacement instead of leaving them suddenly unprepared -- as they do to you.

        I have known people who gave advance notice and left on great terms. And I would al
        • Re:Sorry, but no (Score:5, Insightful)

          by SuperKendall ( 25149 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @03:02PM (#57804908)

          Telling other people you plan to ${ fire | lay off | downsize } them is just basic human decency.

          Yes, and most companies I have been at do that, or at least give a decent severance to anyone let go.

          So your point was????

          Gee, that makes me wonder what kind of relationship employees have who just stop showing up.

          It doesn't make me wonder at all. Those employees are assholes, plain and simple. It doesn't matter what the company is like, you do what you do because of who YOU ARE, not because of who THEY ARE.

          If the company are an asshole and you think you are just being an asshole back by leaving without saying anything - guess what, you are BOTH assholes.

          Don't be an asshole. it will be remembered, forever, by all non-assholes that work there.

        • Telling other people you plan to ${ fire | lay off | downsize } them is just basic human decency.

          ... and nearly all companies do that. When companies do immediate layoffs with no severance it is usually because the are bankrupt and going out of business, and the "evil" managers are losing their jobs as well.

          Oh, but businesses have no basic human decency.

          Most of them do ... because it is good business.

          Can you name a single company that, in the last decade, did a mass layoff with immediate effect and no severance?

      • by Darinbob ( 1142669 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:52PM (#57804850)

        "We, uh, we fixed the glitch so he won't be receiving a paycheck anymore so it'll just work itself out naturally. We always like to avoid conrontation whenever possible. The problem is solved from your end."

      • Re:Sorry, but no (Score:4, Interesting)

        by garcia ( 6573 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @03:00PM (#57804898)

        I recently went to a competitor. I knew theyâ(TM)d walk me out the door ceremoniously. I saved myself the embarrassment and the company the assholishness and just resigned off-site and walked away.

        My team was ready with the news and knew what to do do nothing terrible happened but why should I submit myself to the horseshit just so we can all pretend weâ(TM)re all playing nice?

        • The point is you still let them know (resigned off-site). Even a phone call or text message is still basic decency of saying "I won't be coming in any more".

          I'm not even saying you have to give any advance notice if a company has been particularly crappy to you (or sometimes circumstances are such that you can't give advance notice - you do what you can).

          You as a human being have an obligation to yourself to be as decent as you can be. You still let them know.

          It will be remembered, whichever way you choos

          • by Dins ( 2538550 )

            Even a phone call or text message is still basic decency of saying "I won't be coming in any more".

            We had a relatively new employee who was pretty good, and had been with us for a couple months. All signs pointed to her being a welcome addition. One morning her supervisor got a voice mail from her saying she was sick and wouldn't be coming in. Ok, fine. The next day he got another voice mail from her stating, "I won't be in again." Ok, fine. Must be the flu or something. Several days passed without notice and without the employee. We were left trying to figure out where she was and what was going on

      • Re:Sorry, but no (Score:4, Insightful)

        by sjames ( 1099 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @03:17PM (#57804980) Homepage Journal

        On the other hand, plenty of 38 hr/week "part-time" employees have gotten the old you're not fired, you just didn't get any hours this week and we don't think you'll get any next week either treatment.

      • Telling other people you plan to leave, is just basic human decency.

        Plus even if you hate the company's management, it's only fair to your coworkers - they're the ones who will be covering your duties once you've left.

      • by rtb61 ( 674572 )

        Disposable workers == disposable employers == disposable customers. You get what you create.

    • by Solandri ( 704621 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:34PM (#57804710)
      If everyone adopts your reasoning, employees will quit without giving notice. Employers will let employees go without severance or adequate notice.

      For the best outcome, everyone has to be considerate of each other. Employers have to give employees adequate notice, and provide severance to help carry the ex-employee through while they find another job. Employees have to give their employers adequate notice, and wrap up their projects and help train their replacement employee before they leave.

      Also, being a jerk to a company you work at just because another company screwed you over, is no different from a company being a jerk to an employee just because another employee screwed them over. Again, that sort of behavior just creates a race to the bottom, and is in fact the basis of all discrimination. Retribution needs to target the company or individual who wronged you, not someone else who just happens to belong to the same class, type, race, gender, etc.
      • by dirk ( 87083 ) <dirk@one.net> on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:51PM (#57804840) Homepage

        While I agree in theory with what you are saying, as the article says, this is a new thing for workers to ghost employers. In the past, most people have given notice and it is still not uncommon for companies to lay off/fire people without notice or severance. So the idea that people giving notice will make employers act better has been tried and failed. The fact is, companies can and do fire people without notice or severance, so why should employees not "fire" the companies in the same way?If a company is unhappy with you they just cut you off, if you are unhappy with your employer, you should be able to do the same.

      • The purpose of severance pay is a bribe so that you don't sue for being unfairly terminated. You have to sign the legal docs before you get the extra pay.

        If an employer screws around an employee, the word gets out. Over time they find it more difficult to hire quality employees. The same happens the other way, word will get out about the problem employees as well and they will find it harder to get hired.

        • The few times I've been laid off, they didn't have any of that sort of "legal docs" for the two weeks severance pay.

          Now, Cisco did have some legal docs. There was a fairly decent severance package without signing them. With signing them... let's just say, it was a pretty substantial bribe. Oh, yeah, where's that dotted line? Hey, do you want me to sign it twice?

      • I think, perhaps, I didn't articulate what I meant properly

        What I'm saying is that if your company treats you right, is courteous, professional, and considerate, you will in all likelihood repay that favor when it comes to you leaving. If your company mistreats you, then you are more likely to exhibit the same attitude when you leave. If everyone just considerate of each other, you wouldn't have this situation - but we all know that's not the case.

        In other words, "do unto others as you would have th
      • Employers will let employees go without severance or adequate notice.

        You say that as if they haven't been doing this already, for a very long time now.

        While I can't say that I agree with idea of ghosting (it's pretty unprofessional and risks burning bidges), I can certainly understand the motivation. Especially if it was done to the kind of employer that would sell their own mother for a wooden nickle, like far too many companies do.

    • That's a bit different than showing up to work only to find that your badge doesn't work and the receptionist won't talk to you. You are told that you're laid off, and an employee should tell their employer if they're leaving as well. For instance, you would be liable to pay back any salary you receive after leaving (since they probably just think you're incapacitated in the hospital or something), and you have to give all your equipment back, and give back the badge key for sure. It's also the sort of th

    • Just because they can do this, and you can do this as well, it doesn't mean it is a good idea to do it.

      Because this can have unintended consequences for you.
      There was this employee who just got up an quit, to never be seen again. Me as a fellow employee had to pick up his work and get things done. I have moved onto a different place to work, then I see his resume for validation...

      Sure the company we both worked at sucked, but he left dumping work on me, so when I see his name I will not get the warm and fu

  • by Joe_Dragon ( 2206452 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:23PM (#57804636)

    at will employment goes both ways!

    Fuck you bill I'm not working weekends after being told at 4:55 PM on Friday and go fuck your self and put that in the TPS report.

    • That was my sentiment too.

      I'm up in Canada so 'at will' doesn't apply but I have personally the cold-hearted way companies treat hard working employees, and it's brutal. I imagine for people in demand, it's not even the fact they want to avoid 'tough discussions' - it's just that there's no "relationship" with a corporation. I bet the vast majority of people who leave will miss their colleagues and the people, but no-one is missing the "corporation".

      Incidentally, I've seen what happens when you try
    • At-will is fine, but that means you can tell your employer "I won't be in tomorrow, I'm quitting." as you leave. It doesn't mean you don't give them any indication you're quitting. At-will is not the same as ghosting.

  • Omg (Score:5, Funny)

    by Impy the Impiuos Imp ( 442658 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:27PM (#57804660) Journal

    Isn't this what your emergency contact is for? So they can contact your dad or brother and tell them you've dropped off the face of the earth, go to his house to see if he's dead in front of the computer, pantsdown.

    • Re:Omg (Score:4, Interesting)

      by Nidi62 ( 1525137 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:45PM (#57804812)

      Isn't this what your emergency contact is for? So they can contact your dad or brother and tell them you've dropped off the face of the earth, go to his house to see if he's dead in front of the computer, pantsdown.

      I actually know someone this (similar) situation happened to. Guy didn't show up for work and no one could contact him which was out of his character. They send someone to check at his house and find him dead on the floor of a heart attack. Nice guy too.

  • by Lucas123 ( 935744 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:28PM (#57804664) Homepage
    While you may feel like a boss by not giving a notice to your former employer, there's a strong possibility it will come back to bite you in the arse when it's time for references.
    • Unless their next future boss is also a similar millennial and wouldn't call the references on the phone. I mean, having them written down is good enough. Probably.

    • Most larger companies simply offer that the individual was employed and nothing more. Too much legal potential for libel lawsuits if they say much more....

      And all they have to do is say, well, I saw them repeatedly terminate employees the same day they gave notice.

    • by TWX ( 665546 )

      It's also an issue if you work in an industry that has few employers, especially when such industries inevitably find those employers merging or purchasing each other.

      There are a half-dozen firms here that do the kind of engineering that my wife's education and work experience apply-to. She may not intend to go back to work for a firm that she has left, but it would be foolish to ensure being ineligible for rehire when she might find it necessary or find that a company she later works for is now part of th

    • While you may feel like a boss by not giving a notice to your former employer, there's a strong possibility it will come back to bite you in the arse when it's time for references.

      In theory, I'm too close to retirement for "references" to be much of a motivation.

      In practice, I would give notice. It's just the right thing to do. Even if they were to massively tick me off. (Which isn't likely; the company is pretty good people.)

  • Burning Bridges (Score:5, Insightful)

    by Only Time Will Tell ( 5213883 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:31PM (#57804688)
    I'd be hesitant about using this practice, especially in small markets where everyone knows each other. Our college placement office had a story of a student who accepted an offer from a company but continued to go on interviews afterward. They got another offer, but the partners of the two companies (accounting firms) talked to each other and found out what happened and both rescinded their offers. If you get a reputation of being unreliable and leaving without any contact, it may haunt you in the next downturn. Two weeks isn't much time to stick it out, and if you have an immediate offer, at least tell the previous employer why (and probably expect to not work there again).
    • by DRJlaw ( 946416 )

      I'd be hesitant about using this practice, especially in small markets where everyone knows each other. Our college placement office had a story of a student who accepted an offer from a company but continued to go on interviews afterward. They got another offer, but the partners of the two companies (accounting firms) talked to each other and found out what happened and both rescinded their offers.

      How dare someone shop for competitive offers. Did your college placement office notify applicants that those

      • by tippen ( 704534 )

        I'd be hesitant about using this practice, especially in small markets where everyone knows each other. Our college placement office had a story of a student who accepted an offer from a company but continued to go on interviews afterward. They got another offer, but the partners of the two companies (accounting firms) talked to each other and found out what happened and both rescinded their offers.

        How dare someone shop for competitive offers. Did your college placement office notify applicants that thos

        • by DRJlaw ( 946416 )

          Dangit. You nailed it. Completely blew by that, as demonstrated by where I asked that exact question.

    • Also; in professional communities, coworkers are always aware of who the flakes are. I have had several opportunities to recommend people for positions, and I always keep in mind who's likely to embarrass me if I make that recommendation, as well as who I'd be proud to have recommended.

    • Companies cannot collude to hold down wages. Apple and Google had to pay a multimillion dollar settlement because they were colluding.
      He should have sued.

  • This has been around at least a decade. I don't know if it was a cultural thing or a coincidence, but place I was working at about a decade ago we had three employees do this in the course of 2 months; interestingly they were all Indian (from India not Native American)- I don't know if it is part of their culture.

    I remember thinking it was odd then- and I still do. One of them we found out ended up in New York, so I guess he figured what happened in smallish town South Carolina wouldn't bit him in the bu

  • Repost (Score:5, Informative)

    by apoc.famine ( 621563 ) <apoc.famine@gm[ ].com ['ail' in gap]> on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:34PM (#57804716) Journal

    Has anything changed from 6 months ago when we saw this story? [slashdot.org]

  • Heroin.

  • This wouldn't happen if companies...
    Paid their employees a proper wage
    Didn't over work employees
    Didn't fire them on a whim

    The current job market is giving employees some power as they are no longer disposable. Companies are still treating employees as if they were. Ergo employees are rightfully shitting on them.

  • if the culture of the job is bad enough, why not collect a few extra paychecks by just leaving without notice. It's better than waiting around to be laid off because you're too old or your management doesn't value your contributions.

    It's not like conditions will improve for the people left behind.

    I've seen people commit employment Hari-Kari by trying to use HR to address work issues. (Hint: HR doesn't work for you, and your complaints are not confidential, no matter what they tell you)

    • Because it is unprofessional and the people you work with today you might be working with (or for) again.
    • why not collect a few extra paychecks by just leaving without notice

      If you don't fill in your time-sheet, you're not going to get paid. If you do (or are "salaried" and don't complete a time sheet) you might be committing fraud. In addition, if you have direct deposit, the company can also debit those over-paid funds from your account. If you're going this route, it would better burn your vacation and/or other paid time off, *then* just give notice you're leaving immediately.

      It's better than waiting around to be laid off ...

      Um... I got laid off and received $$$ in severance and my first few months of COBRA paid for by t

  • Back in the 1990s... (Score:4, Interesting)

    by Anonymous Coward on Friday December 14, 2018 @02:45PM (#57804808)

    Back in the 1990s, if you didn't switch employers every two or so years, you were considered someone who wasn't willing to "grow".
    After the dot.bomb crash, you were a job hopper.
    I never screwed over an employer - a couple screwed me over, though. But sticking to the high ground pays off. Future employers will realize they were dicks to you - some were ALSO screwed over - RIGHT fellow IBM'ers?!

    Follow the Golden Rule as Confucius wrote over 3,000 years ago, and it'll work out in the end.
    Yeah, there are some assholes out there who think you should sell your soul to your employer; but most? Nope.
    Give two weeks notice - if it's that horrible that you have to leave immediately, consult a labor attorney and then listen to his advice.

    Been through this shit and many asshole employers (And mostly great ones), and let me tell you, we workers are ALWAYS at a disadvantage.

  • There is a certain level of self-respect in maintaining professional behavior.

  • by martinX ( 672498 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @03:33PM (#57805066)

    Why leave like that? You miss out on cake, and sincere heartfelt wishes from your fellow employees, as well as earnest conversations about “we must catch up some time soon”.

  • So the "gig economy" isn't just a one way street. Good. There are some good employers out there, but there are a lot more who have been mercilessly screwing over their employees for years. If some of them get a little of their own medicine back, I'm all for it. I'm lucky. My current employer is amazing, and I'd bend over backward to help them out. A place where I worked earlier in my career, though, was a different story...vile people running a crooked operation. If I heard their head of HR had cance

  • people have been quitting jobs without notice forever. This is hardly anything new. Meanwhile real wages are barely climbing despite almost daily record stock numbers (save the occasional drop because they're skittish over a trade war brewing).

    This means folks are leaving jobs so crappy they want to burn their bridges. But that doesn't necessarily mean they're going off to greener pastures.
  • Depending on where you work, you hear all kinds of stories. Had someone go out for break on their 2nd or 3rd day, get in their car and leave, and we never heard from them again. Apparently right before they left they told their co-worker, "Yeah, I'm just not feeling it here." Lots of people accept the offer and don't show up on their first day. The good ones call and explain they got a better off somewhere else, which is completely reasonable to me. There are lots of reasons out of our control why anot
  • While not exactly the same thing, I've had in-person interviews with companies where they later simply changed my status to "not selected" on my application without giving/sending me any other notification -- no phone call or email. I only found out when I logged into my account on their career site. I can see this when one has simply submitted an application and nothing else has happened, but I actually met and talked to people, usually several, in person, at their office. How hard is it to send an email

  • I fully admit I'm old school at 43 years old. I'm not a hipster full stack developer stroking my goatee and downing another Red Bull so I can spend 7 more hours debugging JavaScript or Go or whatever my startup's phone app back end is running. But one thing I have experienced is cyclical labor markets. Being a professional may be looked down on today, but I think this is what allows people to survive in the down-swings of these cycles. 1998-2000 was almost exactly like this in the tech world...the only diff

  • by FeelGood314 ( 2516288 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @05:25PM (#57805800)
    I had a job where we had a voluntary salary reduction of 20% and got one day a week off for 6 months. In Canada, a company has to offer you a choice to accept such a cut and give you severance if you don't. If you don't have a job to go to you have no real choice but to accept the cut but immediately started looking for a new job. I waited till the end of the 6 months for my current company to communicate what they intended to do with the 20% cut. This time if they repeated the 20% offer I was taking the severance. The day the 6 month reduction finished came and went and the company didn't say anything. I wasn't going to say anything and weaken my position with respect to the severance. I wanted a written offer for the extension of the 20% reduction that I could refuse. In the end time ran out. I was starting the new job on the Monday and it was Friday afternoon when I quit.
  • Good (Score:5, Informative)

    by WillAffleckUW ( 858324 ) on Friday December 14, 2018 @06:52PM (#57806172) Homepage Journal

    The companies deserve it.

    In the 1944-1974 period, the split between capital and labor was 50:50 (you kept half of the profit from productivity gains from your work).

    In the 1974-2018 period, the split between capital and labor was 90:10 (you get 10 cents of the extra dollar profit your employer "earned" from your work). Frequently that was less than increased costs of living for employees.

    Ghost away!

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