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Washington Post Writer Calls 2019 'The Year of OK Boomer', Calls for Inter-Generational Kindness (sfchronicle.com) 515

"It was the year of 'OK boomer,' and the generations were at each other's throats," argues the national features writer for The Washington Post, starting with a quote from New York University's Michael North, who studies ageism in the workplace.

"Age-based prejudice is the last acceptable form of prejudice. People are making age-based generalizations and stereotypes that you wouldn't be able to get away with about race or background..." People are getting away with it. This year, the baby boom was blamed for almost everything: the fate of the planet, Congress, college debt, plastic straws, the ending of "Game of Thrones." An entire generation was perceived to be operating as a giant monolith, mind-melded in its intention to make young people miserable for the rest of their long lives. Never mind that old people were once young, struggling, loaded with debt, facing a lousy job market, expensive housing, inflation. (Yes, there was something called inflation. It had to be whipped. Ask your parents.)

And, guess what, millennials? You are acquiring property. So, you know, patience.

The sewer of mockery flowed both ways, upstream and down. It was funny, except when it wasn't. If young folk derided the Olds for leaving an environmental and fiscal mess, the baby boom was happy to sling verbal mud in their direction. After "OK boomer" erupted, AARP senior vice president and editorial director Myrna Blyth said in an interview with Axios, "Okay, millennials, but we're the people that actually have the money." (AARP long stood for American Association of Retired Persons, but now a growing number of older Americans can't or won't retire....) What distinguishes these latest ageist salvos are their intensity and frequency. It's an intergenerational quipping contest, fueled by the rapid, reductionist and unrestrictive nature of social media, which makes it far too easy to cast verbal stones. "Social media amplifies previously latent sentiment," North says....

Any day now, boomers won't be blamed for everything that is not okay. This is the year -- can you feel it? -- that, according to Pew's analysis of census projections, millennials are scheduled to surpass the baby boom in sheer size, 73 million to 72 million, because of, well, death. By 2028, Gen X is also projected to be larger than the baby boom, so we'll probably start blaming them.

In the meantime, perhaps the generations need to be kinder to each other.

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Washington Post Writer Calls 2019 'The Year of OK Boomer', Calls for Inter-Generational Kindness

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  • by Anonymous Coward on Sunday December 29, 2019 @07:50PM (#59568786)

    Age based "prejudice" is perfectly acceptable towards kids because kids aren't educated, experienced and cannot have valid opinions on most topics. When they grow up, they earn the right to be "prejudiced" towards still younger generations. That's how this works.

  • Something better (Score:5, Insightful)

    by phantomfive ( 622387 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @07:57PM (#59568794) Journal
    How about "Intergroup Kindness." It's not just baby boomers, it's politics, rednecks vs city-slickers, and any other group convenient to hate.

    If you find yourself hating a group of people, you are the problem.
    • Re:Something better (Score:4, Interesting)

      by AmiMoJo ( 196126 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @10:57PM (#59569274) Homepage Journal

      The people calling for kindness are the ones who just screwed the rest of us and don't want to face reprisals.

      For example in the UK lots of people are calling for unity and reconciliation... The same people who are stripping away our rights and freedoms and citizenship.

      If the division continues they stand to lose out, e.g. when Scotland leaves the UK or when they get blamed for the fallout from brexit.

      All this while they continue to screw us with their gold plated pensions and property hoarding. They don't want us to fight back, to rebalance the system.

      So no, it's war.

    • Absurd (Score:4, Insightful)

      by mapkinase ( 958129 ) on Monday December 30, 2019 @05:37AM (#59569890) Homepage Journal

      I am reading these comments and I am getting a heavy feeling of being in a daymare. The only thing is missing from this conversation is 30-something chairs on the scene, because this surely reads like a theater of absurd piece.

      You are generalizing this case on all other cases of societal friction. Are you insane?

      There is no symmetry in this case. When you talk about races, symmetry is implied (SJWs even disgraced a Nobel Laureate for suggesting otherwise not so long ago), when you are talking about genders, symmetry is implied.

      There is no symmetry when you are talking about old and young. Old will never become young, and in 30 years current millennials will be EXACTLY in the same position current boomers are: they will be old and somebody else will blame them for everything.

      Because how it has been since the dawn of time.

      40 years ago I was in Soviet school and everybody had to study one remarkable novel from great Russian literary giants of XIX century. His name is Ivan Turgenev and the novel is called, drums... "Fathers and sons".

      No, it's not a version of Cat Stevens' song. It's a novel about conflict generation.

      There was no human-made global warming, there was no doomsday clock measuring time left to a nuclear holocaust, there was no Holocaust (yet), but the argument was exactly the same: young generation rejecting old generation. Old generation trying to instill their conservative views on young.

      But this is not how it was presented by the school teachers. Old generation was presented like reactionary force standing in the way of progress and young generation was presented like a savior, and we, 7th grade students were supposed to accept 100% this schema. That was the Marxist dogma we were taught. Every single one of us.

      When you peddle elders-blaming, you have an agenda. A progressivist agenda which is characterized by one thing: you want the world and you want it now (exactly the same crime millennials accuse older generations when somebody in +5 upvoted comment called it "I got mine"). Disregarding the logic of things that lead to the situation when we, boomers and X-ers and silent generation were young, disregarding common sense, disregarding real life exprerience.

      You see, this is where the symmetry breaks. You will be us, unless you join the stupid "27" club you celebrate, in 30 years, you will be exactly in the same position - nobody will come to you and tell you "Thank you, elders!". We, on the contrary, will never be you, young.

      We, the elders, know exactly how you feel, because we were you 30-40 years ago. You, on the contrary, haven't got a single idea what does it feel or mean to be old.

      And the last and most important difference.

      Why do you think human tradition from the dawn of time is that elders teach the young and not vice versa?

      Traditional answer is that we have "knowledge", "wisdom".

      We have shit. We do have experience of living in older times, that's it.

      What we have is an old brain that is incapable of learning anything. You on the contrary are living in the short time of your life where you can learn. That's why we teach you and not the other way around. That's why you need to listen to us, not the vice versa. You can learn, we can't.

      So, read this comment, millennials, memorize it and do not argue. You will never convince us. Just wait until we die.

      • Re:Absurd (Score:5, Insightful)

        by thegarbz ( 1787294 ) on Monday December 30, 2019 @12:20PM (#59570908)

        As long as you die quickly and leave your horded wealth to us that's fine.

        I'm sure your comment has some nuggets of wisdom but I stopped reading when you said you were in the same position we were and that we'll be in the same position you are now.

        That shows clearly you don't understand our choose to ignore the fundamental issues at the core of the conflict as your statement is wrong based on every measurable metric. And if that statement is your call for unity then it will definitely fall on deaf ears.

        • I think you're misunderstanding him. I don't think he meant your situation is the same in every respect, I think he means that the dynamics of the generational conflict are the same. He's not trying to say that you're not facing challenges unique to your generation, at least that's not how I read it. The current young generation has to deal with intensely inflated cost of living/ownership and a job market that prizes experience heavily but isn't willing to give people the chance to get it. That's something
  • by Cyberax ( 705495 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @07:58PM (#59568796)
    That WP author misses the point - the boomers at the same age as the millennials had drastically more prospects and had way less debt.
    • Re: (Score:2, Insightful)

      We also worked our way through college to avoid taking loans. Sure, we missed out on the "collegiate experience" of the European quarter, the nightly fun in the dorms and trips every few weeks, but we ended up graduating - mainly with degrees in fields that made money - with little to no debt.

      We also maintained our own cars. Buying cars that were 10 to 40 years old, patching them up, keeping them running while we accumulated a small savings account. We didn't change out a lease every 3 years, but rather

      • Re: (Score:2, Informative)

        by Cyberax ( 705495 )

        Sure, we missed out on the "collegiate experience" of the European quarter, the nightly fun in the dorms and trips every few weeks, but we ended up graduating - mainly with degrees in fields that made money - with little to no debt.

        My friend is studying to become a doctor (endocrinologist, because he's a trans). His tuition will cost around $80k, without room-and-board. With interest and other required purchases (like books) you're looking at $100k. There is simply no way to be debt-free with such expenses, and his part-time job goes towards regular living expenses.

        We also maintained our own cars.

        Which were much easier then, mostly because they were soot-spewing deathtraps.

        We also cooked a lot of our meals, using the kitchen that exists in every apartment and home. Eating out was something done once on the weekends, rather than weekly. We learned how to live on $5 per day for food, rather than $15 per meal for food, and we banked the rest.

        Banking $10 a day would result in about $3000 a year savings. And you just need to save for 30

        • Re: (Score:3, Insightful)

          My friend is studying to become a doctor (endocrinologist, because he's a trans). His tuition will cost around $80k, without room-and-board. With interest and other required purchases (like books) you're looking at $100k. There is simply no way to be debt-free with such expenses, and his part-time job goes towards regular living expenses.

          They will also earn an average of $267K - meaning that, if they live cheaply for the first few years, it won't take more than 4-5 years to pay off all the debt, assuming 4 years of debt.

          Which were much easier then, mostly because they were soot-spewing deathtraps.

          A 1962 Ford Falcon (essentially the same thing as my Fairlane, just a little smaller body), got 30 MPG back then [wikipedia.org], about what most modern cars get too. No power windows, door locks, stereo (AM radio if you were lucky), AC, etc. And with a "solid" 90 HP under the hood, it took forever to get to 55 MPH, unlike today's rocket

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        • Fully agreed. We coddled the new generation much too much - them and their parents. We can either roll over and continue to coddle them, or tell them to Lighten up, Francis [youtube.com] and realize life is ALWAYS tough, and start teaching them how to deal with issues rather than just buying them out of problems.
    • by LWATCDR ( 28044 )

      Well if the boomer was a white male yes you are correct. If he was a minority or a she not so much. I am also not so sure about that. Where I work I work with a lot of millennials. they are all making 70k a year a few are buying their first home just two or three years out of college. They work hard, invest, and are doing well. I even worked with an intern and he took a job offer from my income and will start this June when he graduates. If you think 70k is not a lot of money I would disagree since in my ar

    • I refute the drastically more prospects claim. I came of age in the mid-70s. Oil shocks and high inflation, and rolling recessions. I joined the navy, as did my brother. College was afterwards for me, he went and worked for a coal-fired power plant, which will be shut down in a few years. The chemical plant I worked at shut down last summer, fortunately I was ready to retire. It's been a mad scramble to stay afloat, but it mostly worked.

      Wikipedia used to have an article on the Jones Generation, which is th

      • by Megane ( 129182 )

        It would help if you got the name right.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_Jones [wikipedia.org]

        And while the early Jonesers may have had to deal with the draft, the later ones didn't. Those that paid attention to the news as kids just saw this mess that politics was in the '70s, with Watergate, Vietnam, and the total flop of the Carter presidency.

  • by localroger ( 258128 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @07:59PM (#59568802) Homepage
    They are getting screwed. In our day we had Pell grants, not college loans which couldn't be discharged through bankruptcy. In our day the polar vortex was stable, rain patterns repeated regularly, and nobody had ever sailed a fiberglass yacht through the Northwest Passage. In our day the corrupt President was shamed into resigning rather than transmitting his rage to the corners of the Earth. In our day the income differential between CEO's and janitors was two digits, not three. In our day a single blue-collar worker without a college degree could support a household, including a stay at home wife, a new car every other year, and kids in private school. I am actually of the tail end of the boomer generation -- the very last year of it by some standards -- and so some of those things were already going away when I came of age. Pell grants went away the year before I entered college. The economy collapsed so that nobody majoring in engineering could get a job while I was a sophomore there. The President's henchmen sold drugs to finance central American death squads and nobody was ever held accountable. And it's gotten much, much worse.
    • Comment removed (Score:4, Insightful)

      by account_deleted ( 4530225 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @08:07PM (#59568838)
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      • They are a pale shadow of what they were before 1978 though, and getting paler through the intervening years. My wife, who is six years older than me, and who was by her own admission an average student, got her degree at no personal cost and with no debt. By the time I came along (and I was born in 1964) this was impossible. I had an academic scholarship. The "FEC" family expected contribution quickly became unrealizable without loans, and those loans have become more usurous and their amounts more one
        • I assume you worked all through college, 20-30 hours per week, and took a little more than 4 years to graduate, like many of us did? I am but two years younger than you, but I was able to work my way though college (a small, private one at that), earn a BSEE, and graduate with no debt. No grants, either - but I did earn a few scholarships based upon performance.
      • by rsilvergun ( 571051 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:15PM (#59569016)
        from Public Universities, resulting in sky rocketing tuition [fivethirtyeight.com]. Pell Grants weren't adjusted for inflation let alone increased need, meaning they're damn near impossible to get and almost useless if you do.

        So yeah, they're still technically in place. Meaning there was never a headline that read "Pell Grant program ended to make way for another round of tax breaks for the rich". The 1% long since realized they can't just tear these things down. It's frog boiling for the working class. Doesn't really work on frogs, but it does seem to work on us. Go figure.
        • California State Universities cost $5700 per year [collegecalc.org]. CSUN offers a BSEE degree. I earned my BSEE back in 1989 - and paid $6200 per year, back then. It is, in absolute dollars, cheaper to get a BSEE today than I did back in the 1980s. Factor in 2.25X change in purchasing power, and education is a LOT lower than what many of us - who graduated WITHOUT debt - ended up paying. Of course, we also worked 25-30 hours per week, and full-time during the summers...
    • Re: (Score:3, Insightful)

      by postbigbang ( 761081 )

      Things are tough all over. They have been for generations. They'll continue to be for more, save one major problem: we're killing our spaceship.

      The fossil fuels which generated energy (and positive by-products) darkened the atmosphere, and is currently poisoning it for a long indefinite future. We were lied to about it. We're still lied to.

      The younger generation deals with that, and the re-emergence of financial fiefdoms, often growing across the planet. The sheltered wealth isn't taxed, audited, and become

    • Re: (Score:2, Insightful)

      by Mashiki ( 184564 )

      Some nice rose coloured glasses. The federal government nationalized student loans a decade ago and nearly all banks stopped providing loans back in 2006 or so. Polar vortex's were never stable, I remember quite a few winters down in southwestern ontario when the daytime high was -35C. People sailed through the northwest passage 150 years ago, it's safer now because Canada and Russia operate multiple icebreakers and will come rescue you if you're an idiot and get stranded. If you're looking for an actua

      • by LynnwoodRooster ( 966895 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:43PM (#59569096) Journal

        I remember the coming ice age scares of the 1970s (yes, all you mods, it really was a thing), and snows of 18-24" every winter in the 1970s and 1980s, in Seattle. Then it warmed up. But now they are coming back - almost like there's a 60 year cycle with the Pacific Ocean...

        I also realize that blue collar workers (plumbers, electricians) average $60K of income - more than a banker or lots of "white collar" workers who borrowed for 4 years of college.

        One of the big things is the increase in taxes. Adjusted for inflation, the Federal Government alone, today, brings in over twice the taxes as it did in the mid 1960s. Taxes eat up a lot more of the average person's income, but Johnson's misguided "Great Society" movement has moved people from independence to Government dependence, and an ever-growing Federal state.

    • by ceoyoyo ( 59147 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:53PM (#59569132)

      The generations can argue back and forth with anecdotes all they want. The numbers tell the story. Like these:

      https://www.macrotrends.net/co... [macrotrends.net]

      American boomers and older gen X spent most of their lives living through fantastic economic growth, first post-war and then through the roaring 60s, 70s and 80s. Growth approaching or exceeding 10% is roaring.

      The 90s and early 2000s were a bit of a check on that, so most of gen X did their career-building and home purchasing in a more sober environment. The millennials (and those of us who went to grad school) got screwed by the late 2000s and subsequent years. Despite all the rah rah about the "unprecedented" growth in the last decade, it's been mediocre compared to the 90s, and abysmal compared to what went before.

      Boomers lived through a very exceptional time. The things they take for granted were not normal for their parents, and are not going to be normal for subsequent generations.

  • "These kids today!" has been the fist-shaking meme of every generation, ever. At its rotten core is the unspoken resentment they turned out that way despite the previous generation's best efforts.

    • It goes back at least to Aristotle. "They [Young People] have exalted notions, because they have not been humbled by life or learned its necessary limitations; moreover, their hopeful disposition makes them think themselves equal to great things" The quote goes on, but I think you can get the gist.

  • So you mean this generation is unique to cross generational differences? Please see "Vietnam War" and "Civil Rights movement".

    This shit makes me think of the popular conceptionalation of the current crime rate in our country. Our children are safer then at any time since WW2 but if you talk to your average American we're under siege.

    Moder mass media is a cesspool or alarmist trash

  • by Solandri ( 704621 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @08:06PM (#59568830)

    "Age-based prejudice is the last acceptable form of prejudice. People are making age-based generalizations and stereotypes that you wouldn't be able to get away with about race or background..."

    Just a couple weeks ago, Obama said [cnbc.com] that women are indisputably better leaders than men. Anyone who stated the inverse stereotype (that men are indisputably better leaders than women) would've been crucified for such a sexist remark. That's the last form of acceptable prejudice.

    Remember, prejudice is not about believing a stereotype which is in general true. It's about taking that stereotype and generalizing it to the entire affected population. You are pre-judging every member of that population based solely on stereotypes about that population - hence a prejudice. Which is exactly what Obama did when he said if all leaders were women the world would be better off. Women may in general make better leaders, but to substantiate his sexist remark would require every woman to be a better leader than every man.

    This is why you can't fight prejudice with reverse prejudice. All you end up doing is replacing one form of prejudice with a different form of prejudice. And the pendulum will swing one way, only to eventually swing back, and forth, and back, and forth, etc. To eliminate prejudice, you have to stop the pendulum from swinging entirely.

  • In-group vs. out-group behaviour frequently reported in the media, i.e. they're at each others' throats:

    • Generations
    • Sexes
    • Races
    • Left-wing/right-wing
    • etc..

    Or, when you no longer have the budget or time to actually investigate anything anymore, what can you write to fill up the space between advertising that will attract people's eyeballs?

    • by fafalone ( 633739 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:49PM (#59569110)
      They have to absolutely keep hammering on the divisions you mentioned, otherwise people might start realizing those are all nothing compared to the very rich v. everyone else battle. It's the elites worse nightmare if everyone else started putting their differences aside to focus on the terrible exploitation and gutting of the middle and lower classes they're getting away with.
  • by MinasOne ( 6492330 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @08:08PM (#59568840)
    Yet another article from an older person, boomer or not, handwaving away the issues that younger people have over society, the economy, and the planet itself for another masturbatory "can't we all just get along" diatribe while. OK Boomer was created in response to this kind of mentality, because that's what a Boomer is, a mentality of ignoring reality and the concerns of people while having everything for themselves and pretending the people with the concerns are simply childish or weak willed, or pampered etc. Despite being in my late 30s, despite debt, climate change, a broken political system, an economic system that is destroying people while being told that "Better things aren't possible", and with statistics to back up my statements and beliefs just ignored or called "Fake News", I've given up. OK Boomer is a middle finger, and rightly given, to a group of people, generationally proportioned or otherwise, that refuse to see how shitty things are for many younger generations and mock those same generations for trying to make things better for everyone. Being old isn't a requirement for being a boomer, I've met plenty of 20 year olds with the same 'Fuck you I Got Mine' mentality, it just seems to infect older generations more. If you don't believe me, let me leave you a relevant George Carlin video, a man who was not in any way a Boomer.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTZ-CpINiqg
    • Re: (Score:2, Troll)

      What gives you the right to declare just what the nature of reality is, and what concerns everyone has? As Boomers, we don't waste as much time thinking about getting laid as you do. We can better devote our energy to OUR idea of betterment, not yours.
    • That's ok. One of these days here, pretty soon, Millenials are going to realize what power sits behind that demographic bulge.

      Voting power.

      As in, "No, let me tell YOU how this is gonna go."

      Shortly after that, we'll get legislatures that are suddenly VERY SENSITIVE to the issues facing the younger generations. VERY SENSITIVE.

      Then it'll be time to take a look at some of that past lawmaking activity. Non-dischargeable student loan debt, for instance. Oooh, or how about all of those 'investment friendly' an

  • I'm fairly certain the reason the "Greatest" generation were called that because they were old enough to fight in a war whilst the "Silent" generation were called that because they were too young to fight.

    My father was a member of the "Silent" generation, my Grandfather was a member if the "Greatest" generation. There is no way that my father and his father were in the same generation.

  • The people who say they want others to be kind to them, are the kind that are rarely kind to others.

    Be kind when it is warranted, be honest and direct else wise. It is time to speak truth to dour.

  • stop blocking universal healthcare, stop trying to end Social Security for anyone but yourselves. Stop throwing us in jail for a few ounces of weed.

    In return we'll promise to keep Wall Street from using our medical system to steal your retirements and homes.

    Deal?
    • stop blocking universal healthcare

      You are a tool of insurance companies. You don't know it. You don't get it (because you are probably too stupid to get a complicated argument). But you must be resisted or by the time you get to the age when you actually need healthcare, no money in the world will buy it for you.

      • I'm advocating for Single Payer Healthcare. That literally ends the Insurance Industry (with the exception of a few odd ball policies like coverage for elective surgeries). If I'm a tool of the insurance industry then they've turn Goth and are trying to commit suicide.
  • "Ok Boomer" is overwhelmingly used by millennial against Gen-Xers. Very few of its instances are actually against baby boomers. The beautiful part is that legally, anyone 40 or above is protected class. Any age discrimination against people of 40 or above, at work, is against the law. This would be the easiest law suit ever if the HR didn't bring the hammer on whoever said it.

    Is it bad that millennial are frequently dismissed because they are considered too entitled given their lack of experience? Mayb

  • Kindness (Score:4, Insightful)

    by Dunbal ( 464142 ) * on Sunday December 29, 2019 @09:21PM (#59569044)
    Can't speak for everyone else, but as Gen X here I'm kind of happy I'm on the way out. This is no longer the world we grew up in. Mass surveillance, more laws, less freedom,etc. I kind of understand my grandparents now. While you feel like the same person as you age, it's the world that changes around you, until you get to a point where you don't understand it anymore. Well, have fun with it kids :)
    • Re: (Score:3, Funny)

      by Dunbal ( 464142 ) *
      Oh, and fuck you, Greta.
    • First rule of Gen-X club, man.

  • whatever (Score:3, Interesting)

    by cascadingstylesheet ( 140919 ) on Sunday December 29, 2019 @10:47PM (#59569252) Journal

    First of all, "OK Boomer" doesn't even mean anything. Except maybe "I'm incapable of rational thought; please recognize that I'm an idiot."

    Secondly, Boomers were the hippies. Boomers were the ones who first got all excited about the environment, race relations, women's lib, pretty much everything you claim to care about. If there were any logic in your heads, you'd be saying "thank you Boomer".

    Third, actual Boomers are now elderly. If being nasty to elderly people is your thing, then ... well, not sure what to say about that.

    Fourth, since it's unlikely that the people you are clashing with are even Boomers, it makes you look pretty stupid. It makes you sound like you think that Eddie Van Halen is Lawrence Welk.

    Yeah, I know, I used more than twenty words or so, so "OK Boomer" to me, even though I'm not a Boomer.

    • Re:whatever (Score:5, Informative)

      by pellik ( 193063 ) on Monday December 30, 2019 @01:39AM (#59569590)
      It also means "I'm dismissing your irrational argument out of hand instead of engaging you."

      Hippies were actually a pretty small percentage of their generation. Movies portray them as the entirety of youth in the 60s but that's just not the case.

      Being old and being wise aren't the same thing. You respect the elderly by giving them your seat on a bus, not by following along with dementia based delusion.

      OK, Boomer is about dismissing thecondescending argument format that the term frequently follows not actually about the age or exact generation of the one using it.
  • Funny... (Score:5, Informative)

    by bondsbw ( 888959 ) on Monday December 30, 2019 @12:11AM (#59569420)

    Because previously it was just the older generation blaming Millennials for everything.

    But this is normal. A group finally defends itself, and everyone decides they are the ones being offensive.

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